mack said:1261Truckie said:What I miss most is "the neighborhood". A close knit community made up of several groups with a common thread....this is where we live, shop, go to school and hang out.
I miss the small "mom and pop" shops,the small supermarkets (A & J on Washington and Lincoln and Fisher's on Washington between St. John's & Sterling Place), the butcher shops (good meat and the butchers gave kids a slice of bologna as a treat), Sinclair's and Ebingers bakeries, the Pizza shop on Washington between St John's & Lincoln, the diner on the corner of Sterling & Washington, Greenpoint Savings Bank on Washington Avenue (where you actually did face to face banking and every teller was your "personal banker") and so much more.
You could walk anywhere, at any time, or take the bus or subway if it was a"long trip"
As Paul Simon said "...Preserve your memories..."
So right 1261 Truckie! I miss my old neighborhood and the people who made it special for me.
It used to be special to walk down your block and see your neighbors sitting out on their stoop or front step on the weekends or after work at night. Everyone knew everyone on the block. You knew their kids and jobs and family. People knew each others names and spoke to each other. People cared about each other, respected each other. People helped each other.
Maybe your grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins lived down the block. You ate Sunday dinner together. The smells of meat and potatoes or pasta cooking as you walked by each home made you hungry, even though we always seemed to be hungry. We only ate meals together, and did not eat snacks and junk food all day long. People walked places. People walked everywhere. They did not have a lot but seemed to be a lot happier.
Life was simple and maybe better. No cell phones, no Facebook, no cable TV, no Twitter, no malls, no video games. People actually spent time together and went on picnics, played softball, went fishing, played games - together. You did not hear about home break-ins, identity thefts, car jackings. Families did not have everyone on anxiety and sleeping meds. People left their doors unlocked - all the time. Even firehouses left their doors open on runs.
We miss the restaurants, bars, schools, parks we had growing up that have been closed or replaced by something newer. But we also miss the way of life that seemed to be better for people and families.
Sometimes I tell people 'it's great to be a senior citizen these days". We all have such Good Memories of a simpler life. Little things made us happy. Like Joe says, getting that candy bar from the machine, even if it was a little melted.
Games that us as kids always looked forward to playing. Hide and seek, stick ball in the street, touch football in a vacant lot, hop scotch. We couldn't wait for Saturday or Sunday to come so we could play the entire day outside. Of course we always had church services in the morning to go to first.
In the winter time we would go sleigh riding. The older kids would go ice skating or shovel snow for the neighbors to make some extra candy money.
We would line up in the street at school to - Pledge Allegiance to the Flag. In bad weather we would Pledge Allegiance in each classroom where we had a small American Flag on display. If a police car, ambulance, or fire truck was going by with it's siren, we would always have a moment of silence that everybody will be okay.
I remember riding my bicycle for hours up and down the street. If I saw smoke or heard the fire trucks, I was headed in that direction.
The Memorial Day and Fourth of July Parades were huge. They would go on for hours. My grandmother and grandfather lived right on the parade route. We could watch the parade for an hour, go back and get a few hot dogs or hamburgers, then go back to watch the parade and it was still going on.
I'm glad that I was a part of it. I'm sure most of us would do it all over again if we had the chance.